I currently use a paper & pen method as that is how my brain works. If you are more electronically minded when it comes to organization, Erin from it's all happening wrote a nice meal planning post recently about how they use Google calendar and iPhone apps to make it a smooth process.
In sharing how we handle meals around our house keep in mind that it's something that works for us in our current life situation. We do a week at the time, but 3 days at a time might work better for you if you are just getting started. Conversely, doing a month at a time and keeping things in a freezer might be your method of choice (here is a interesting website with details & recipes: Once a Month Cooking). I like the idea of having more freezer meals on hand, but we simply do not have the space for an additional freezer. For us, meal planning a week at a time keeps us eating a good mix of fresh meals, "leftover" meals from the freezer, and a weekly take out/pizza night.
THE BASICS
Here is the basic system I use:
- I create my meal plan and grocery shopping list for one week at a time on Sunday mornings. You might do less days or more depending on what works for you.
- I generally cook 4 days a week (aiming for one or two of the meals to make enough food to freeze for an additional meal), eat leftover freezer meals for two, and get take out/eat out/ make frozen pizza for one. This can vary considerably, but this is my general rule of thumb.
- I write all the meals down in white-board marker on a plastic sleeve covered sheet on the fridge. This keeps my plan in the forefront of my mind and also lets me visually shuffle things around as needed. Below is an example of last week's plan (which ended up getting shuffled around, as is the norm).
- I get my recipes from a variety of sources: food blogs, cooking shows, allrecipes.com, Epicurious.com, family & friends, cookbooks, and cooking magazines (Cooking Light, Cook's Illustrated, the occasional Better Homes & Garden-type magazine at the gym). To see my favorite recipes, visit my cooking blog or click on my index of recipes. Once I have tried a recipe and Husband and I deem it a success, it gets printed out, placed in a plastic sleeve and placed in the master recipe binder. I have tried working off my lap top, but I'm just WAAAAAAAY too sloppy. I also keep a lot of loose recipes that I have torn out of magazines in this binder, but those are kept in the pockets. They don't get official plastic sleeve status until they are tried. And because I'm anti-clutter, I go through these loose recipes every so often and get rid of a bunch.
RECIPE SELECTION
Let's talk in more detail about choosing recipes before we launch into the step-by-steps of meal planning. When you choose your recipes, you need to consider the following:
- Your desire to spend time cooking and the time you actually have. Hate to cook? Then by all means choose quick, simple and easy. Love to cook, but have young children underfoot? You are also going to be choosing quick, simple, and easy most nights. Along these lines, make sure to stay realistic about your skill level and lifestyle.
- Ingredients
- Don't pick too many recipes with special ingredients in one week. You will spend too much money on ingredients and have excess that will likely go to waste. Until you really get rolling with meal planning, it might be best to stick with familiar ingredients that can be used in a variety of recipes.
- Consider choosing recipes with overlapping ingredients. For example, if you are going to be cooking a whole chicken in your crockpot, then you can use the extra shredded chicken in a chili later that week. Also, if I'm buying fresh dill for borscht, then I will use the extra dill on fish or in a potato salad later that week. This keeps me from having leftover ingredients that might not get used otherwise.
- Grocery budget. Meat is expensive. Organic produce (or even just regular produce) is expensive. Gourmet meals can be expensive. Keep these things in mind. Perhaps just one fancy meal every couple weeks or once a month will be enough to satisfy the gourmet chef of the house.
PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER
Now for the nitty gritty how-to of it all. Here are the steps that I follow.
1. Determine your basic eating goals. No need to write anything down. Just acknowledge to yourself what it is you want from your dinners. Are you looking to lose weight? Save money? Eat more vegetables? Reduce sodium? Keep that overall goal (or goals) in the forefront of your mind as you choose your meals and subsequent groceries for the week. Our goals are to eat organic/local/seasonal, include several vegetarian meals, attempt to be more budget-minded, and have meals that can be prepared either quickly or in steps (i.e. mostly during naptime).
2. Consider what is going on that week. Let's say Husband is going to be at a work thing late on Thursday, then that's a leftover or simple meal night for me and I make a note of it on the planning sheet. I don't want to try to be cooking a 30+ minute meal in the kitchen without someone to help me distract Bella. If we are going out on Saturday then I mark that down. If I know that Tuesday is going to be crazy busy & exhausting then that is a perfect night to schedule leftovers (i.e. a freezer meal). I think meal planning can trip people up when they forget to take into account their actual lives.
3. Now that you have some basic framework in place, it's time to choose the first meal. How to pick? Open up your fridge and freezer and figure out what needs to be used in the immediate future. Right now I have some basil that is on it's way out so I will either make Lemon Basil Pasta or a Pesto in the next couple days, both of which would make enough for at least one additional freezer meal. Lettuce only have a day left? High time for a Grilled Chicken Caesar Salad or maybe a Taco Salad, methinks. See how that works? Keep yourself from wasting ingredients and start with what you have.
4. The next meal(s) I pick are usually the fun ones that I am in the mood for or that Husband requests.
5. After those first few meals are penciled in, consider the ingredients that you will need to purchase to make those recipes. Let's say Husband requested chicken enchiladas. I know that will require the purchasing of a fresh bell pepper and cilantro, but the recipe only uses half of each. Since I don't like to waste any produce, I decide that I'm going to make a vegetarian Indian dish - Chana Masala - where I can use some of the cilantro (plus this recipe will make enough for two more freezer meals) and Asian Chicken Salad on another night to use the rest of the bell pepper and any remaining bit of cilantro.
6. From here I mentally check in with our eating goals and I can see we are short on vegetarian meals so think about what we have tucked in our freezer at the moment and I decide that one of the freezer meals should be Veggie Lasagna and that the night Husband works late can be Tuscan Cheese Tortellini Soup.
7. BOOM! I'm done and I'm ready to make the grocery list. Check out my master grocery list post if you are interested in streamlining your grocery shopping.
As the week proceeds I can and WILL shuffle and juggle the meals to make it work. For example, a lazy night might change to a pizza night or a gorgeous warm night might have us grilling something instead of what I planned. By including take out and leftover/freezer meal days, you give yourself a lot of flexibility and freedom with your week.
I really hope this was helpful for a few of you. And please let me know if you have questions. Like I said, this kind of thing is fun for me. Happy planning, my friends.

I need to get into the swing of doing more meal planning. I split cooking dinner with my husband and he is a MUCH better cook but not so great with advanced planning of meals. Great post!
ReplyDeleteThis post is basically my wet dream. The lists! The binder with tabs! The plastic sleeve covers! Even though I am "more electronically minded", as you so eloquently put it, I still love good old fashioned paper and pencil organization.
ReplyDeleteDid I just say wet dream in a blog comment? I'm sorry, I couldn't help myself.
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ReplyDeleteyou're much more organized than my bum (holy hell i'm drooling over that binder), but we have the same basic methods huzzah! i plan before i shop and try and get a couple nights out of at least one meal i cook.
i love your actual days written out schedule tho! must implement. mine is sort of in my head, but i also write down a list on my fridge to remind myself of produce to use up and stuff i want to bake. it's half-ass.
but QUESTION: when do you make the freezer meals? like you'll cook 2 lasagnas instead of one? i'm a failure at freezing things other than frozen berries and popsicles. but i love this idea! halp? :/
Mama in the City - But will advance planning stifle his culinary genius? Kidding :) Sometimes Husband will cook something, but it's more of a twice a month thing these days with his job & me being home.
ReplyDeleteErin - BAH! Wet dream. Haha.
BJA - It's more like we make one lasagna and I we eat 1/3 of it the first night and split the other two (cooked) portions into glass containers for the freezer. But a lot of the soups & Indian meals & pastas we make serve a hearty 6 portions so there is no way we can eat it all at once. I'm thinking when kids are older and actually eat more than a wee bit this plan won't work as well, but at that point (1) they won't insist on being held while I cook - oh god, i should HOPE they won't insist on being held while I cook and (2) I may have the chest freezer of my dreams in a real! house!
Do you ever plan it out but then that meal doesn't sound good to you when it's time to make it? That's what always seems to happen to us. I buy the stuff, but then either husband or I aren't in the mood for it after all ... and the stuff goes bad.
ReplyDeleteHusband always works late and wants me to make a meal and save the leftovers for him to eat later. To me, that just takes all the fun out of cooking. Think I'll try to adopt your leftover plan - that might work for us, thanks!
Heather - I think I used to have more of a problem with that, but I got somewhat used to eating what was pre-planned when I worked in eating disorders and ate 10 lunches & dinners with clients every week. Other things that help - buying ingredients that work in a few recipes so if you don't feel like option A, you can do option B or C. For example, chicken breast can go a million different ways. I think the other thing that might change for you guys will be that once the baby comes, you just won't care as much. Life is a little chaotic, so you'll just go with the plan to keep it simple.
ReplyDeleteFinally, if we planned something, but I"m not feeling it, I shuffle my days. So then I would do a pizza night and save the cooking for the next night. Having 3 days of take out/leftovers/pizza lets you be lazy when you need to be. Maybe start with planning to actually cook only twice a week and that way you give yourself & husband lots of flexibility.
I thought that our meal planning was good, but you take it to a whole new level! We generally try to have a "theme" every week- Mexican, Lebanese, Asian, etc. thinking that the meals will use similar ingredients. We try to make a big meal on Sunday that will last 3-4 dinners. Fridays have been pasta days so that I can carb up before long runs the next day. :-)
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ReplyDeleteFirst of all - this post amazes me and you are now my meal-planning hero. I feel like when it comes to meal planning I will from now on just ask myself - "WWLD?" or "What would Laura do?". I do have a question though - do you keep non-recipe "recipes" in your binder? For example - I have a number of meals that are sort of made up recipes and sometimes I don't even keep the ingredients perfectly consistent (like pasta salads or other mish-mash things)... I like to keep these in the rotation, but I often forget about them because they don't require a recipe and so when I am looking through my recipes they don't come to mind. Or even some side dishes - like grilled sweet potatos....I forget about these because clearly I don't need a recipe card that says, "cut up sweet potatos, brush with oil, grill" but yet maybe I do? Thoughts?
KT - I love the idea of theme meals and am excited for going all out with those as I have more time on my hands. Like special table clothes & dishes for different nights. I pretend like that stuff is fun & good for children, but really? Just fun for me.
ReplyDeleteKatie - The simplest thing to do would be start a food blog. Haha. I kid. What about making a list of your favorite meals & sides to have on hand and put that at the forefront of your recipe binder. Husband & I did that once. Also, there have been times where I print out blank calendars and then jot down what we eat everyday. Then you will have several months to look back on to get more ideas - I think I took that idea from group meal planning with the clients at EDI!
I actually think the simplest thing to do would be to have you write food posts each week (like you did last week) with recipes attached and then I will just eat one week behind you. Deal? Also, it will help if we keep timing our pregnancies and lactation together so that when you need to eat more hearty meals and snacks, so do I....
ReplyDeleteLove the comment you left on my blog - it just further proves that we're probably separated at birth. Anyway - someone just asked if I had a way to subscribe to comments via email - I see you have that option on here. Do you remember what you had to do to get that to show up?? I have now subscribed so you can just comment back or email me :)
ReplyDeleteKatie- OMG, are we having more babies still? HALP! :)
ReplyDeleteErin - That was always just there. In fact, I have been admiring how on other blogger blogs you can click on that regardless of having left a comment or not - I want THAT set up! I just tried looking at the settings & design & html and I couldn't come up with much, but I can tell you that under settings>comments I have "comment form placement" as embedded below post. Could that possibly hve anything to do with it? (Prob not, but who knows...) It might just be a basic template thing, too. I wish there were basic html courses for bloggers!
This is really fantastic and a great resource for me as I embark on our food budget journey. I was jotting my meal plan down on the back of my grocery list. This is much better :)
ReplyDeleteMolly - And I bookmarked that chicken & dumplings recipe you posted and am planning to make it this week since I had a whole chicken in my freezer! :)
ReplyDeleteI'm new to your blog, reading for a couple weeks now, and really enjoy it. Love, love, love the binder. I have recipes everywhere! My plan was to organize in a cookbook organizer bought from local hallmark store but I think the binder and tabs are the way to go. The organizer isn't set up quite the way I want which is why I never got around to it. You're post has motivated me. Hopefully, I will finally complete the project I started when I went on maternity leave. My beautiful daughter is now 17 months old!
ReplyDeleteKatie- WOOHOO! Always happy to motivate. I also found that organization systems that you can buy don't work for me because they aren't EXACTLY what I want. I think it's a whole perfectionism thing that I get hung up on. Enjoy putting your binder together. One tip for doing your own binder - you will want to make sure to buy the plastic inserts w/pockets and tabs that stick out past the papers.
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