Thursday, May 31, 2012

Project 52:20 Magical


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Um...I think I'm missing a week. And I totally forgot about this week until now. Whoops!

I love birthdays and I like to make a big deal of them. Not so much that I think there should be a big party for the birthday person, but more that I want lots of attention lavished on the b-day person the whole day. (And that would include me on August 8th.)  I want there to be a magical feeling to the day, a little bit of glitter over everything. And one of the very best things about young children is how easily that magical feeling can be created for them and how you then get to experience all that sheer delight with them. So cool.

I debated trying to coordinate a party for Bella, but decided against it because most of our families are out of state and while she has many young friends, most are of the casual friend variety. Plus, Bella was more interested in doing things with the family on her special day than having a party. So after offering her a variety of choices for the day, she picked going out to the Mall of America by bus & train (Metro Transit) and then a small family party with hot dogs, cake, and presents.

From the minute Bella woke up on her birthday she was in the best mood and continued to be the sweetest girl all day long. It was lovely and kind of amazing, to be honest! When Oliver went down for his nap at 9, Bella and I left the house for our hour-long journey to the mall. I wasn't sure if the fun of a bus and then train ride would wear off quickly, but she was happy the whole time (I also brought the iPad with some Dora which helped).  I think it's funny that the little train at the mall costs $3 per person, but an actual train ride was only $1.75 for the two of us. It's nice that we can take advantage of being smack in the middle of the city for these last few months of living here.





Once we were at the mall we went on rides at the amusement park there while waiting for Oliver and Husband to join us.  She had a blast.


We met up with Oli and Husband and headed to the aquarium. However, upon seeing the lines and noting how tired Bella was already getting, we quickly changed plans and just grabbed a quick lunch instead.

After nap, Bella's much loved 11-year-old cousin, Sol, her Auntie (Husband's sister) and her Grandpa (my father who was in town for business) came over to help her celebrate. It was really nice that they could be there - she loved having everyone around. She ended up not eating the hot dogs she requested because she was too focused on the cake and cupcakes waiting for her. Finally - it probably felt like 30 years for everyone to finish eating from a 3-year-old's perspective - it was cake time. Her rainbow cake was as big of a hit as I hoped it would be. Even though my cake decorating skills are hilarious, I feel proud that I gave her exactly what she wanted. She doesn't care that the cake was lopsided, frosted imperfectly and had sloppy frosting decorations. To her it was perfect. And that's the magical part again.




The day ended with some dance party time and then playing with new toys.



And that was her third birthday!

10 comments:

  1. I totally agree... on everything! I LOVE birthdays and now having kids, they are SO much more fun. I just love watching the entire day unfold through their eyes, seeing them get so excited over the little things and not caring about the bigger things. It's awesome! I love that the real train is so cheap - the train at the mall is pretty awesome, but I always feel so ripped off when three of us take a ride and it's 9 bucks! Seriously! Also, LOVE the cake! I'm pretty into making my own cakes for the kids birthdays and I'm sure in the future my cake decorating skills will not exactly be up to par, but what matters is that I'm giving Allie the cake she wants... so kudos to you for making the cake (and I think it looks pretty awesome, love the rainbow colors!).

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  2. YAY!!!!! The cake turned out AWESOME :) I love birthdays with all of my heart, so I can definitely relate :) And I love my kids' birthdays even more so than my own now, and this sounds like it was an awesome day for both of you! I think now that Annie will actually know it's her birthday, I'll start taking the day off on her birthday so we can have a mommy-daughter day. I'm already excited and it's still 7 months away ;)

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  3. "I want lots of attention lavished on the b-day person the whole day" - What a Leo! Mine is Aug. 16th =).

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    1. Oooh!! I can totally relate :) august 14 here too!

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  4. Haha, I'm a Leo, as well (August 10) and I feel EXACTLY the same way about birthdays. And, holy moly, I love that cake. LOVE it. That, to me, is the perfect birthday cake. Well done!

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  5. AWESOME cake. AWESOME. Perfectly decorated cakes are lame if you ask me. My family throws things like matchbox cars and dinosaur toys on top of their cakes, and whatever sprinkles or chocolate chips they can find. And I think those are the most memorable, special cakes. Bella's day seriously does look like it was magical.

    Oh, and I'm a Leo too (July 29) and I also LOVE birthdays.

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  6. When I read that you were headed to Mall of America (on facebook) I thought (a little enviously) that having a 3 year old girl must be so different than having a 3 year old boy. I look forward to all that girly stuff! One day...if I can muster the courage to get pregnant again. :)

    I especially love the cake you made. So awesome!

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  7. Leos of the world unite! And I'm gobsmacked to think that non-Leos don't secretly seek that "ME! ME! ME!" feeling on their birthdays. How could you not want it?

    Thanks for the cake love :)

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  8. What a perfect day! Happy 3, Bella!!! <3

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  9. Happy 3rd birthday to your beautiful girl! Seems like it was a perfect day. And, for the record, I think the cake you made was AWESOME too!

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